It’s one of the most common questions in Filipino dating. Some women are genuinely looking for a partner, others are looking for a provider. What patterns helped you figure out where she stood early on?
Genuine interest: she asks about your day, your family, what you think, what you believe. Financial interest: every conversation eventually lands on her problems, her family’s problems, what she needs. Both can coexist — she can like you AND need help — but the ratio matters. If 80% of the conversation is about her hardships, adjust your expectations.
The test I use is simple: I mention I’m going through a tight financial month and watch the reaction. Genuine interest doesn’t disappear when the money signal disappears. The other kind gets quieter. Not a perfect test but it tells you something.
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