[KansasCityCoder]

I think men need to be careful about the power dynamic here. Women who are displaced, scared, and uncertain are vulnerable. Not all foreign men approach this with the right intentions. I try to be honest with myself: am I actually offering something real, or am I taking advantage of a situation? That question matters.

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[KansasCityCoder]

Expect direct questions. She asked about my job, debt and future plans way earlier than any American woman I’d dated, but it made sense since she was thinking long term from the start.

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