[SeattleMusicNerd]

Performance feels frictionless. Everything you say is perfect, she agrees with everything, there’s no moment of genuine tension or difference. Real connection has friction — she has opinions, preferences you don’t share, moments where she’s not performing for you. Absence of any friction is actually the red flag.

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[SeattleMusicNerd]

Agencies can work, but don’t outsource your common sense. If something feels staged or rushed, step back. You don’t need a company to create pressure for you to “pick someone.”

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